My family means the world to me and even just typing that is an understatement. I love and value my family first. A close second is the families I serve. Because family is so important to me personally, I am always trying to reflect and think of our student's families.
It may not look like it or seem like it, but I truly believe our school families are sending us the best student they can. I might be overgeneralizing here, but I feel...
* Most families just don't know how the school system works like we do because we are on the "inside".
* Most families don't know what they don't know and therefore, don't ask for help because they don't know to. They trust that we will tell them.
* Most families want to help their student, but they don't want to seem silly or stupid by asking.
* Most families are wore out doing the best they can to provide for their families.
...and I feel this way because I have been "that family". My child went to a new school system where I didn't know how it worked, didn't know what I didn't know about high school, didn't want to ask because I felt stupid because I do work in a school district, and I was tired working my butt off in the 9 to 5.
While all that is true, I know better so I did better. I asked the questions and did what I could to help her. This experience taught me that we have to be clear and kind with our families. We have to presume positive intent and give them the resources they would need to be the parent who helps their student succeed. True, some may not use it. However, that doesn't mean we don't for the few, hopefully many, that will.
That is why I have put together our Literacy Help for Families website.
https://sites.google.com/iwcs.k12.va.us/literacyhelpcenter/myview
Here are some new things I have added to help our families. Please join me in spreading the word and providing feedback about what else I should add.
* Handwriting worksheets for manuscript and cursive - For those students really struggling with handwriting, print these and send home for families. Have the student circle their BEST letter!
* Fluency Progress Graphs and Kid Friendly Fluency Rubric - You could send home the cold read weekly in grades 1-5 in order to help with this. Another idea would be to send home the weekly foldable decodable texts.
* Writing Rubrics by grade level - You could print one and send them home to each family at the beginning of the unit. Have kids write at home and bring a writing in for extra credit.